Epaphras's Example of Leadership

Many of us have held or are currently holding the highest position in an organization. Some lead a department, a student executive board, a working group, or a hobby club. As leaders, we need to handle and decide many things, and also be an example. And this is not an easy task.

In our journey as leaders, we may have made mistakes. Some of our policies may have missed the mark, reaping protests, displeasure, and even hatred. Perhaps what we do is not taken seriously enough. We do not understand it when people begin to ignore us or keep their distance from us.

It turns out that having the position and authority to lead does not automatically make us a leader.

So, what is the true essence of a real leader?

The Example of Prayer and Service in the Way of Epaphras

Let us look at the passage about Epaphras, a follower of Christ who is mentioned several times in Paul's letters:

“Epaphras, who is one of you, a servant of Christ Jesus, sends greetings to you. He is always wrestling in prayer for you, that you may stand firm, mature and fully assured in everything God wills. For I can testify about him that he is working very hard for you and for those in Laodicea and Hierapolis." (Colossians 4:12-13)

A number of Christian scholars believe that Epaphras was a citizen of Colossae who became a disciple of Jesus through Paul's ministry in Ephesus. He then devoted himself eagerly to ministry in his own city.

But the Colossian church at that time was facing the problem of mixed teachings. Many were wandering without clarity in their faith, like the people of Israel in the wilderness.

When that happened, Epaphras did not remain silent. He prayed earnestly and worked hard for the people of Colossae, Laodicea, and Hierapolis. Epaphras became an extraordinary example in seeking the growth and spiritual maturity of others.

Purifying our leadership purpose

Loving in the way Epaphras did is a noble goal for every leader. Yet sitting in the leader's seat is no guarantee that we have a heart and spirit of service. More often, we are busy wrestling through all the turmoil of the organization, so that we forget our original purpose as leaders.

For that reason, we need to reflect again on what the purpose of leadership is.

1. Leadership is not about position, but function

Famous speaker, author, and leadership expert John Maxwell said, “A leader whom no one follows is not leading; he is only taking a walk.”

So, even if our position is high, if others do not follow in our footsteps, that is not leadership. We become leaders by giving influence to others. 

Then what if I do not, or have not yet, had the opportunity to lead a group?

Brothers and sisters, even if our position is not that of a leader, we can still show leadership. What is meant here is certainly not being pushy, acting authoritative, or bossy. Leadership here means a willingness to work for the common good, and to pay attention to others who are working in the group.

We function as leaders, regardless of whatever our position may be.

2. Let our lives be used by God for the maturity of the faith of many

All followers of Christ are leaders. We are the firstborn. We are priests for a lost world and those who set an example.

But try asking yourself these things:

Have I taken part in carrying this spiritual leadership?

Am I pretending not to hear, or perhaps afraid to accept this noble calling?

If we are afraid to bear the responsibility of leadership, pray. Ask God to grant the courage and wisdom of a good leader. Remember that we are not alone on this journey. God desires what is best for His people. Surely, He also wants to give all of that through the hands of His people.

Epaphras became a living example used by Heaven to help as many people as possible. Let us also learn to take part in spiritual leadership. Do not simply leave it to positional leadership. The world needs us. Heaven wants to use us. Therefore, let us offer ourselves and carry the responsibility of leadership. The role of every member of the congregation is needed in ministry.

Prayer: Father, I realize that I have a responsibility of leadership in ministry. I want to learn from the example of Epaphras, helping my fellow believers to see and attain spiritual maturity in Christ Jesus. Enable me to do it for the glory of Your name. Amen.

Adapted from the article "An Example From Epaphras" by Rev. Togar Sianturi.